Don't Be a PUA!

One thing really annoys me: PUA's. What? isn't that what we want to become? Maybe that's what recovering AFC's want to be, but not me, and hopefully not you. What I want to become is a better version of MYSELF. I have no desire to be melted down and poured into a PUA mold. I want to mold myself, into what I want, desire, and need; I want to form myself into my own player, not PUA (I purposely use the word player instead for that reason, because its DIFFERENT). This has to be some of the most important and exclusive advice I can give. Use the Community as a reference, an example, not a lifestyle.

Some other points that go along with this:

-Don't use overused and copied lines. Make up your own. Test 'em, ask other Community members.

-Find your own individual sources of confidence. (Your passions, desires, interests, people etc)

-Don't come off as a PUA. In the last few years, the PUA community has exploded. I'm sure plenty of your friends have heard of it and a few probably use material. If you really want to rock with women, you have to separate yourself from the noobs and keyboard jockies.

-Women know about the PUA community, separate yourself from it. What if the women you were dating found out you were a PUA??

-Focus on having good Inner Game. PUA lines can be detected and figured out. Inner game is elusive, and all-powerful.


Another tip: If a woman accuses you of using a line she heard earlier or at a club, tell her "Damn thats my friend I got to go beat his ass now!" Lol they'll forget about it. Think on your feet.

Another tip too: If she accuses you as being a PUA, accuse her of being a PUA because she's hitting on you.


Field Report:

Today, for lunch, I went to Subway and there was this cute girl workin' the cash register. I said "Hi, how ya doin", "I'm doing fine... thanks!" she said rather happily. I was asked to sign the little screen after I gave her my credit card. I drew a penis and two balls. Ha! She laughed a little, then looked up at me and then started laughing like crazy. The guy working the sub line looked over, I just told him she was gettin' a lil' delusional and needed to get off work. Lol. The line was long though so I had to cut the interaction and leave before the people behind me started stoning me. Needless to say, I left a pretty good impression. Tomorrow I'll probably go back and see her again. Wow I love women.

Enough With the Negativity

That last post was a bit depressing right? I just had to get that out there on the playing field. I promise that's the last negative thing you will see on this blog. This leads me to a fundamental issue I'd like to address: ATTITUDE. Attitude is by far the most important thing to to have control over as a player. It is more important than inner game (game that is derived from the mind), physique (physical masculinity), and far more decisive than and gimmicks or techniques that the Mystery Method and other PUAs worship. Attitude is actually the first thing to develop when taking the path to dating success. The funny thing is that attitude, being the most important thing, is the easiest thing to develop. If you have the right attitude, inner game develops, the techniques you practice flow out in the most seductive manner and things seem just right. When you have the right attitude, you have the vibe, or good attitude. That's all you need really, no amount of seduction bullshit can replace that.

"Nothing on earth can stop a man with the right attitude from achieving his dreams"

This vibe should be applied to everything you do. I see a lot of guys, especially in the Community refer to women as bitches, whores, and other negative things. Don't make that mistake. This just creates negative thought connections when you think of women in general. Also, don't think of guys who are successful with women are jerks, assholes and the like (most of them are not!). Don't you want to be successful with women? Why the fuck would you call yourself a jerk, asshole? Another way to apply positive vibe is by when interacting with women directly. Have a fucking positive attitude. FORCE yourself to think you are the man in the face of a woman. Force it, don't fake it.

Incorporate positive vibe to everything in your life. Get good grades, join a social group or whatever and rock that shit. The vibe will overflow into every other aspect of life.

Field report:
A few months ago I was in the "Hub" as its known at UF. It's kind of a social gathering place so to speak. I was with my friend, Wilson and he was enjoying his chick-fil-a sandwich. I was just chillin', and out of no where I caught the eye of a cute* brunette a few feet away on a couch. She saw me looking at her, I didn't flinch. All that came to mind was, "I'm gonna fuck you so hard tonight" and I literally said it over and over in my mind 10 times as we telegraphic sex with our eyes (at least that's what I thought of it). Wilson left to go to the bathroom for a few minutes (great timing), and she waltzed over confident as can be, and started some small talk. The funny thing is, I was flirting with her and I didn't even realize it. And she was too. It was so natural it freaked me out. That was definitely NOT the end of that. This just reflects how the right attitude can change everything. Obviously, I wouldn't have gotten the same response if I had thought timidly, "omg shes looking at me... look away..." (However I am pretty hunky, she might have still come over :D )

"Get 'er Dun" strategies
This section is for listing some strategies for achieving the mindset discussed in the post. They are "get 'er dun" strategies because they are meant to be employed right now. Keyword right now. Fucking do this shit and GET 'ER DUN Damnit. Ok.

One of the best things to do is create a 'dream board'. Get one of those cork boards and cut out pictures of stuff you want, cars, electronics, women w/e. Continually add to the board and put it somewhere easily visible. Make a title that says "DREAM BOARD" so people know what you are up to, and if they criticize you for having big dreams tell them to fuck off because they are being negative. Remember, only have good vibes in your life. Remove the negative things, even people if you have to.


Ok it's getting late.
I'm off...
like my ex-girlfriends dress.


*I don't rate girls on a scale of 1-10, I just follow my gut feeling: cute, hot, sexy w/e. I believe that rating them by numbers puts an emotional gut feeling on a rational scale of 1-10, and I don't believe it translates well. One man's 8 is another man's 6, but cute is always cute and sexy is always sexy.

KinoPlayer is in the House

Players, my name is Baird O'Neile. I'm writing this blog to share dating advice and log my adventures as an aspiring player. I have been on this rock for a mere 19 years, and, it seems in the last nine months, I have learned more than my fair share about life. That's right, nine months ago, I found my way into the Seduction Community by securing an illegal copy of David Deangelo's eBook "Attraction is not a Choice." At this point, I knew my life had changed. I knew there was no stopping me; I was in the Seduction Community and was not leaving soon. Back then, I was a mere 18 years old and just about to start college as an engineering major at the University of Florida. I was also in a relationship I perceived as good. I considered myself lucky that I had scored such a beautiful girlfriend, my first actually. I had no clue how wrong I had it. With the enlightenment of the community, I realized how naive and "AFC" I was. I was still buying dinner for her, going to visit whenever she needed me. I thought I was on the right track, I mean, thats what everyone told me to do, thats what the internet said, that's what my traditional southern roots told me to do too. I did everything for her, just so I could get a nice drawn out kiss at the end of the day with her. Little did I know I was being so manipulative: buying her necklaces an such just to try to "get some." She dumped me out of nowhere. I never saw it coming. Shit has changed now. I have the knowledge, the power of truth on my side and I'm putting it to work like a draft horse. I wish you the best of luck in doing this too.