Wednesday, June 3, 2009

Using Kino (Touching) To Escalate Attraction


Kino is probably the most important method for escalation. In my opinion, kino should be actualized within 10 minutes of meeting a woman. It sends a signal of "this guy is serious, yet cheeky, and he's not afraid of me!" by 10 minutes of meeting her, she has almost figured out your "personality fingerprint" so to say... the impression that you leave. Cocky comedy and teasing only cover a few things, such as cheekyness and cockyness, but it's important to make sure she understands you are a real genuine dude with some kino.

Correct kino:
Just kidding, there's no correct way to do kino. Its mostly situational and spur of the moment, but there are a few guidelines you should follow:

-Initially, kino should be very brief. Just a tease. You don't wanna overstay your welcome. All you need to do is touch her long enough for her to wonder what you are doing, and retract at the moment she wants more of it. Later, as y'all get closer, of course, kino can become anything you desire.

-Heres a list of good kino actions, ordered from best done initially, to best done later in the relationship:
1. As you talk to her, touch her lightly on the elbow or arm to get her attention if you need it.
2. Ask for her hand, hold it cupped in you palms, and look at it and stroke the palm with a middle finger for just one second, then let it go and say "Your hand just looks really nice/soft" or something to that extent.
3. Guide her while your walking with your hand on her back, shoulder or upper torso area just for a second and then let go. Don't just do this randomly, do it when you need to "lead" her; when you guiding her to/through a door or stairwell.
4. Slap her ass. For no reason, or make up a reason. You can have a lot of fun with this one, and with the responses you get. But make sure she's sufficiently comfortable.
5. Hold her hand for a few seconds while you are walking, and drop it. Say, "It's too early for this." (I did this to one girl and her response was "You act like a child sometimes." somehow her neg failed to shake me: we ended up making out plenty that night.)
6. Warm up her hands if its cold outside. This will really get things hot. (pun intended)

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